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Saturday, May 31, 2008

Puppy Mills






Ya'll know how I LOVE my dogs. The other day I watched Oprah's segment on Puppy Mills and even though I knew much of what goes on in these places, it was still so haunting to watch. We got my baby Oscar from The Coleman County Humane Society last summer and he has been the joy of my heart. Those of you who know Oscar might find it hard to believe why we love him so much...he chews up our stuff...he growls and barks at strangers...he is my shadow-very clingy and needy. But despite all of this-he is pure love. After watching Oprah's show, I emailed the humane society to ask about his living conditions at his back yard breeder where they rescued him, his siblings, and his Chihuahua mother. Here is a clip from that email:




"Hi, Laurie. So nice to hear from you and Oscar. We are very happy that Oprah has done the puppy mill show. A real boom!

Oscar was one of an overflow of Pom puppies from a lady on the edge of town. They had a messy junkyard and several outbuildings around their house. I was appalled when she showed me where she was keeping Oscar in one of the filthy outbuildings with just a tiny bit of light so he wouldn’t breed one of her females. She had a breeding sire (Oscar’s dad, Bear) and the other males she didn’t care so much about although they were fed and watered. Her husband finally said “enough,” and we got three dogs from her at first, then Oscar, the last one she was willing to part with. I heard later that one of the ones we wanted so bad was run over and killed in front of their house. I haven’t heard from her recently, so maybe they’ve quit breeding."



Here is Oscar's birthmother, Missy.
And siblings.
Oscar was 8 months old when he was rescued, so he lived his life in a box in the heat and cold of East Texas. According to the Oprah show, many of these breeders do not walk their dogs or let them out of their crates. They feed and water them but do not bathe or brush them. They typically keep 1-2 male dogs and will dispose of the rest. Who knows how many litters Missy had, most vets would say that small dogs should have only one litter in their entire life, but the healthiest is for them to have none.

So no wonder Oscar is such a pest- look at his early life, he was not socialized, not cared for or loved.

Summertime is a time when many people get puppies.
They have more free time and often will go to pet stores or breeders in parking lots to get a brand new puppy. Please DO NOT do this. It only encourages breeding and inhumane treatment of animals. Go to a local shelter, contact your Humane Society or go to http://www.petfinder.com/, which is where we found Oscar. There are many pure bred rescue groups out there too. Puppies are cute but they are difficult to train and often times people will end up dumping the dog off on someone else when it grows out of the cute stage and into the annoying one (which is usually 6 months to 2 years old). This cute little image reminds us that our pets deserve to be with us until they die.

We got Lucy at 8 weeks old from the pound, her litter had been dumped off because people had not spayed and nuetered their dogs. Please do this. Even if you think your dog will not get out, a dog in heat will find a way. The Coleman County Humane Society is currently offering free spaying and neutering for big dogs and there are many low cost places in every city.


Here is a link to see Oscar's update on their website!


I always wanted a dog. I begged my parents to get a dog all through my childhood and had a collection of stuffed animal dogs, pound puppies, you name it-if it had floppy ears and a tail-I wanted it! But it wasn't until I married that my wish came true! I'll try not to put too much "eternal significance" on my love for my pets. But I have known many people who's lives were touched by their little four-legged friends and they grieve their deaths deeply. To love a dog and to be unconditionally loved back is a beautiful thing. Don't let a little extra fur and mess keep you from not owning a pet, and please get a rescue animal!! They need a home and family to love them.

Our dogs are a part of our family in every way.

I suppose the humane society didn't know Oscar was going to be Donald Duck for his first Halloween! Ha!

Friday, May 30, 2008

VIVIANNA!!!

I found this furry boa at the dollar store and she LOVES it.
She won't take it off...what a diva.

This is the scene I walked into last night. In the time it took me to gather their pajamas from their room, she went into the bathroom where Isaac was on the toilet(we usually keep the doors closed-for obvious reasons!) and climbed into the sink. I screamed when I saw her. I don't want to think how she would have gotten down. This kid climbs on everything! We can't let her out of our sight!


Isaac's Last Day of School!

The class praying before they have their lunch.
I made them beachy cupcakes to kickoff the summer.
Here are their cubbies stuffed with end of school gifts.

Monday, May 26, 2008

Happy Memorial Day!

The kids with Vietnam Vet, Grandpa

Vivi This Year 2008
Vivi Last Year 2007
What a difference a year makes!!
We are a very patriotic family as you can see from the HUGE flag on my parents garage! I just want to give a "shout-out" to my Dad who served in Vietnam and also to my friend Nicole Cale whom I have known since the second grade! We went to school in Indiana together and stayed in touch as pen pals when I moved to Texas after fifth grade. She has served in the Navy for...gosh I think maybe 10 years now...not real sure! But she and her husband currently live in Virginia and are expecting their first baby (a girl) this month! A big "thank you" to you, Nicole and all our military that have served so faithfully for our freedom and safety. A special thank you to those who have given their lives in service. Happy Memorial Day.

Friday, May 23, 2008

Eat!

Vivi's favorite word other than "puppy" is "eat." She follows well in her brother's footsteps. I have always been diligent in making sure my kids eat well. I feel like as a parent it is a huge gift you can give your kids to start them off on the right foot-being that eating is something they will do multiple times a day for the rest of their life!

I have wondered how the path to whole grain baby cereal and fruit for breakfast turns into poptarts and Lucky Charms. It does not seem like a natural progression. I have talked to many moms of toddlers and preschoolers who say "my kid doesn't eat toast, or eggs, or oatmeal. He would gag if I served that." Makes me wonder what they do eat, and how did you get there?

I have taken some slack for being a bit of a food Nazi with the kids, but lately I have begun to notice it paying off. First of all both my kids will eat plain yogurt and cottage cheese. Two things Billy and I wouldn't touch if you paid us. Isaac eats tuna fish sandwiches as quickly as PB & J. Vivi LOVES raw tomatoes and mushrooms...again two things that make Billy and I gag.

But best of all has been a few little victories I have had with Isaac in the past couple days. Now...let me start with, this child loves candy and chocolate. He begs for chocolate milk and we do let him have these treats occasionally. He scoffs if I put any green vegetable on his plate asking "do I have to eat that?" Of course he does, but he still has to ask every time. Well the first little mommy victory happened when he asked for a snack after nap and I handed him a small ramekin filled with baby carrots. He said "I don't like these." and I said "that's okay, but that is your snack today if you get hungry." "I need dip." he countered. So I poured some light italian dressing in one corner of the bowl and left the room. He came to me a few minutes later saying he needed more, I thought he meant dip-thinking surely he just used the carrots as a way to lick the dip, but when I looked in his bowl the carrots were gone! He had a huge grin on his face so I praised him, filled the bowl again and off he went happily munching. That made my day!

Then last night I took the kids to Wendy's while Billy was at guitar. I ordered Isaac chicken nuggets, mandarin oranges and milk. Vivi had a grilled chicken wrap and I had salad and a potato. Isaac ate one nugget and asked me what Vivi was having. When I told him, he wanted some so I cut it in half and handed it over. He scarfed it and said, "Mom can you get me that next time?" Yeah!! I did a mini victory dance. Then he began to eye my salad and wanted some of that! He ate half of that, finished off his nuggets and milk and I rolled his round belly out the door. This morning at 6:20, no less (don't get me started on our sleep schedule around here!) they both ate a bowl of oatmeal with raspberries and yogurt mixed in.The only downside of all this is that my grocery bill is out the roof! Fresh produce and unprocesed meat is not cheap and wheat products are supposed to be going UP in price with gasoline! Great. But I think we must be keeping Cascadian Farm in business because they keep coming out with great products.


And another proud moment came when the Dr. Sears website contacted me to inquire about how I have been liking their products and I wrote them an email telling them about how Isaac has been on their Little Champions mulitvitamins and Omega-3 tabs since he was 2 and has only missed one day of preschool for being sick all year, an ear infection on Christmas Eve-of all times! They emailed back and wanted me to record my email on a voicemail of there's and they will send me a free product of my choice. Yeah, Dr Sears!

Parents magazine's June issue has a four page spread on The Healthy Kitchen. http://www.parents.com/recipes/nutrition/kids/best-foods-to-stock/

And I recently bought this highly talked about cookbook with a giftcard at Barnes and Noble: Do not let the fact that you have to make veggie purees for each recipe throw you off. I did these for about 9 months when I made Vivi's baby food and it really is not that hard to do. So even though my child is getting to the age where his peers are consuming toaster strudels and sugar cereals, Capri Suns and potato chips, I plan to press forward even if I end up having to sneak the vegetables in!

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Baby's First Haircut!

Vivi had her first haircut today at a place called Hair Diddle Diddle!
Before shots!

We chose an adorable pink airplane for her to ride in.

She was very still for a one year old.

She wanted to shop after her haircut.

After! The lady put gel in and gave her a little curly style.
They gave us her hair in a little baggy.

After her haircut we took her to Bennigan's for their $4.99 lunch special (including drink!) We always love a good deal! Isaac was at preschool so it was fun for Vivi to have Mommy and Daddy all to herself.


Monday, May 19, 2008

Make Everything a Memory

I love this picture of Isaac at the wedding watching Jen and Jay dance. He was our little man that weekend and Oh so cute! We loved traveling with him, he did so well in the car. Lately he has been asking me what time it is-having no concept of time as it is! He often asks "what's for supper?" even at 7 in the morning. He says "Mom, are you happy or are you sad?" which makes me reflect on how important my role as mother is. I set the tone for the family, good or bad. If I am happy it gives everyone else the freedom and encouragement to be joyful as well. If I am sad or grouchy, I rob my family of their freedom to laugh and play carefree-because everyone is worried about what's up with Mom. It is a difficult role to maintain, but an important one for sure. I said on one of my last posts that I would talk about my motherhood moto of Making everything a Memory. Billy and I reflected on our drive back from Houston this weekend for his sister's graduation, about how the little things in life make a huge difference for kids. When we are spontaneous like the night we shouted "Icecream" after we were all in our pj's and drove out to Braums. Or when Billy crawls under the baby's crib and gets stuck just to make the kids laugh. Isaac remembers the quarters he got from Daddy at Cici's to play an arcade game. And somehow I have to believe Vivi will remember the mornings we cuddle in bed as she drinks her milk. These are the things that are so small and mundane but HUGE when it comes to making time with your kids count. And don't say your children are too young to remember. They might not remember what color their party plates were but they will remember the feeling of safety and love that surrounded them in that moment. They will carry it with them and dip back in it when life gets tough or sad or scary. Vivi loves to wear bracelets and hats, any accessory. And everytime she puts one on I say "pretty girl!". The other day she put sunglasses on, looked in the mirror, smiled a smile that showed all 12 teeth, and said "pretty".

Billy said it is interesting that something as simple as me tying ribbons around candles at a party will get noticed. People notice when they are treated special-it makes them want to come back for more-and it leaves a lasting memory.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Oh My Goodness

I had the following email forwarded to me from my friend who heads up our adoption ministry. To put it mildly, we are outraged that this is going on. Read the following and then click on the video.

Hi everyone,
I wanted to let you know about an amazing miracle that is happening in a church in Southlake. They have offered an infertile couple here in the Metroplex 'The Gift Of Life'. The Eleven7Church in Southlake, Pastor Keith Lutrell (http://www.eleven7.org/) and his congregation are wanting to bless an infertile couple with the Gift Of Life - paid infertility treatment up to one IVF cycle with ICSI if needed. Please click on this link below to see news footage of this wonderful opportunity.

http://cw33.trb.com/video/?clipId=2463858&topVideoCatNo=75285&c=&autoStart=true&activePane=info&LaunchPageAdTag=homepage&clipFormat=
The Eleven7Church have teamed up with The Center for Assisted Reproduction and the North Texas Urology Associates to offer this gift and make it a reality.Interested candidates (you think that's us?) can goto the website at
http://web.mac.com/eleven7church/Eleven7/Gift_of_Life_files/application.pdf and apply by completing the application online. The selected couple will be named on Father's Day!I am so grateful that God has burdened this church and it's congregation to award such a gift. I am so grateful to each and everyone of you to be able to apply.If there is anything that I can do to help you with this, please let me know!I love you all very much and am very excited for this opportunity, and Thanking God for the couple that is selected and this family and church who has so graciously offered this gift!
Lorraine Thomas,
FounderFertility Challenges Support
First of all, the church cannot guarantee this procedure will result in a pregancy and live birth however they so flippantly use the title "the gift of life." Then-according to the application- each couple has to pay $25 to apply-yet it is being promoted as a gift from the church. You get 1000 applicants and you have $25,000 right there! So how is that a gift? It is more like a lottery pool. Then they are choosing 10 couples out of the saddest stories and parading them in front of the concregation on Sunday June 6th, only to bring them back up there the following Sunday on Father's Day to have a "random" drawing where one lucky couple will win. What about the other 9 couples who have already experienced so much loss and dissapointment-now they have to suffer publicly? Is the church going to set up some counseling for them? My friend and I were exclaiming what kind of church does this sort of thing and I said it must be one of those Prosperity churches that believe if you have enough faith God will bless you. And she said this all sounded too much like a publicity stunt to get people to come to their church- which I agree!
The bottom line is if a church wants to give the "gift of life" to one "lucky couple"- why not pay for an adoption? That is a life God has already brought about and a child who needs a home-paired with a couple who are desperate to be parents, not just to be pregant.
Where in the Bible does it tell people that God will bless you with biological children? Nowhere. But there is a lot mentioned about caring for the orphaned. Let's not bring our medical technology (IVF by the way is very controversial among Christians) into Church. Church is a place we should feel safe and supported no matter where life takes us- not some magic pill that will make all our "dreams come true." Sheesh.

Friday, May 16, 2008

Sick Dog

Lucy (on the left) spent all afternoon yesterday at the animal hospital. She has an upper respiratory infection that we believe she must have gotten from the kennel we had her at this past weekend. Guess we won't be going back there. They put her on anti virals and said it was a good thing we brought her in early for treatment before the infection went into her blood stream. So she is on 3 different meds and has to stay home when we go to Houston tomorrow for Billy's sister's graduation. Lucy came home wearing a hospital bracelet collar, it was kind of cute! She has never been sick before so it is hard to see her coughing and gagging and wheezing. Her activity level is down and she lays around most of the day. As long as she is resting, she doesn't cough much. The vet said if Oscar is not showing symptoms yet then he is probably fine.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Chatty


I realized that I forgot to tell you all that Vivi started to say Mama. She has been saying it for a couple weeks now...thank the Lord! It was about dog gone time. So I thought at the ripe age of 14 months old, I would list the words she says constantly in order of importance to her:
"Eat" or more like "Eaaaatttt"
"Mickey" (her favorite toy is a talking/singing Mickey Mouse doll)
"Puppy"
"Mama"
"Daddy"
"Isaac" or "Iseeec"
"Baby"
"Cup"
"Bbbbb" (book or ball)
"Hi" (with her hand up to her face like a telephone)
"Bye-Bye"
"vroom"
"paci"

I think that is about it. She will repeat things we say with a parrot-like clarity. But then we can't get her to repeat it at parties when we are trying to show her off. So we have quit trying. Eating and carrying that darned Mickey doll are truly her favorite pastimes. She hates going to bed and can throw her pacifiers out with an arm like a pro-pitcher. I'm surprised they haven't hit Isaac upside the head yet!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day




We drove 15 hours home today from Tenn. and went straight to my mom's to pick up Miss Vivi.

I couldn't let Mother's Day slip by without holding my girl. I'll post about the wedding tomorrow but for tonight I leave you with these pics of me with my answered prayers.

I honor all of you mother's out there- those holding your babies today and those yet to meet your forever children. May the Lord bless you and keep you and may his light shine upon you. Pray for the little ones entrusted to you~that God will give you the strength and patience to let the laundry pile up and the dust settle nicely on your furniture, because the days are long but the years are short. Our little ones will one day be too big to cuddle and too busy to care about every little thing we are doing. My motherhood moto is Make Everything A Memory! I can post later on about how I accomplish that, and trust me it is not about scrapbooking! I leave that for Grandma. :)

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Saturday shopping before wedding prep begins!




This little village was ALL Christmas shops.
Who knew Santa spent his off-season in the Smokey Mountains?
After all our shopping we splurged on bottles of mountain soda pop and microwave popcorn on the cob! The little country store we bought these in were on the edge of the mountain. So fun!

Fun little stores!
Wouldn't this shop for lease make a great cupcake bakery? :)

Check out the Appalachian looking Starbucks!