HELP!!! I need advice!! It is 2:30 in the a.m. on
monday and I am up worrying...as I do more often than i like to admit! This particular worry fest is about Vivi's party next weekend.
Big, weighty world issues...I know. :) The good news is that everyone we invited is coming, the worry part comes in on what to do about the cake situation. We are having a small intimate party at a tea room. It is setting us back a pretty penny including tax and tip, but with the help of Nana, we are able to make it work. However, our budget for b-days is still maxed with this one(and a bit over...shh...don't tell Billy :)
Anyway...the problem is the price of the party only includes those activities and food reserved for the 10 children attending. This means all of their respective parents will not be fed or watered during the 90 minute party. It takes place at 4 p.m. which is not traditional meal time, but this wars against all of my hostessing ways. They do not allow outside food or drinks and their adult party fare starts at $40 a tray. No thanks. They do however allow outside cake or cupcakes. The problem is the children are having
petit fours in lieu of the traditional party cake (it's a tea, remember) so they don't recommend an extra cake because it is all way too much sugar for tiny tots in the long run. They will be served tea sandwiches, tea cookies, fruit kabobs, and chocolate soup *see what I mean about the sugar) . My dilemma is what to do about the adults?!! Do I bring cupcakes and if so what if their children start to drool over them and wonder why mommy gets the fancy cupcake and they are stuck with tiny tea cakes. However, if I also serve cupcakes to the kids i would have to bring about 3 dozen to cover everyone and that could be a problem with the
afore mentioned budget constraints, not to mention that would create thirsty adults...and I already brought up the "no outside food or drinks" policy. No party punch this time around.
Oh dear me. What do I do? Keep in mind her birth family is traveling 2 hours to attend this shin dig and her maternal grandmother has a raging sweet tooth.
One solution involves the fact that I was planning for family to eat dinner at a local Cici's after the party (it will be dinnertime, the adults will be starved, and I don't want the family who came 2 hours to have to turn right back around and leave). So I could serve up just a dozen cupcakes after we eat. But this does not solve my what-to-feed-the-adults-if-anything dilemma at the party. And I can't go to ole reliable for advice (my doting husband) because I think we can all guess what
he will say!! So...blogging friends it goes to you....HELP!!!
P.S. The last time I asked for advice was about her b-day outfit I was ordering off Etsy...
remember? Ya'll really came through for me there because we had her portrait taken yesterday and she was
Adorable!! So thank you!! *You will get to see her portrait after her b-day party...sorry!* :)