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Saturday, March 16, 2013

Stuck: A Documentary Film

Today our church had the privilege of hosting an adoption awareness day to promote the documentary : STUCK.
This important film is about the incredible difficulties that often arise in international adoptions...specifically in getting chosen children out of certain countries which in some cases becomes near impossible.

We hosted a luncheon with members of the film crew including the producer and director. Partners with area adoption agencies and members from the ABBA fund also attended, along with families touched by adoption.

A panel of families told their testimonies of trying, for in some cases going on six years, to get their adopted children released from their countries of origin. These stories were heartwrenching as parent after parent cried describing how their children are stuck...with no release date in sight.

Critics might say, "then don't go with international adoption if it is so difficult when there are plenty of children here." Well...the truth is that our U.S. government has in place many, many resources for impoverished and abandoned children. We have WIC, food stamps, the welfare system, the foster care system, adoption agencies, homeless shelters, school food programs, subsidies, grants, scholarship funds, and the list goes on and on. In many, many countries none of these resources exist for children who find themselves without a family. And we believe it is every child's human right to grow up in a family...not an institution.

The purpose of the movie and this national tour is to raise awareness of this process and for the film makers to bring a petition to our president on May 17th of this year to begin to move the legislation that keeps these precious kids stuck in orphanages and in effect denying them forever families. You can check out the documentary showings and event tour itinerary  HERE to find a city near you hosting one of these events.

I cannot imagine any of my children being stuck for years without their Mommy and Daddy. I thought our foster care journey was rough with the wait and lack of any sense of urgency for permanency...but these families stories are living nightmares.

All of us who are touched by adoption should get involved in this movement for social and political change on behalf of the world's children.
You can purchase the documentary here and 
PLEASE, please go sign the petition, here.
Here I am with Terrance's Mama and our dear friend Heather (in the middle) who currently is waiting with her husband and son for their baby boy in Korea to be released by the government to come home to them.

I pray often that baby Jude will be home by Christmas.

Here is Jasmine's preschool teacher signing the petition.

My kiddos getting a cool bite from the Kona Ice van.
 
Even the Chick Fil A cow came out in support of the documentary!
Jasmine is having none of that as she tells that cow off.
 
Please go see the movie which also includes an after show Q & A with the film makers... (or purchase it online for the same ticket price) and SIGN the petition right now before you forget, as it will be taken to President Obama on May 17th in a plea to:

MAKE A CHILD'S RIGHT TO A FAMILY OUR PRIORITY

stuckdocumentary.com

Thursday, March 14, 2013

Mall Girls

Billy took the day off work so that we could take the girls to the mall for Vivianna's birthday.
Jasmine enjoyed peeking in at the Easter bunny 
and going to Build A Bear:
 Jasmine got her first bear and Vivianna
 brought in her Hello Kitty for a wardrobe change.
Cheerleader, of course!
Vivi enjoyed getting decked out with a crown and birthday pin at The Disney Store and having cupcakes!!



 She also loved her first pair of heels and sparkly shirt we gave her.
Aunt Beth will love these...
 After lunch in the food court, the girls enjoyed riding the carousel.
Vivi's final request was to get make-up put on at the counter at Macy's. Hilarious that she wanted to do this, but so fitting to her feminine personality.
A little lipstick and blush goes a long way on a 6 year old.
Happy Birthday, Baby!!!

Six Years...

Six years ago today at 12:07 p.m. I was witness to my beautiful first daughter entering the world.

We named her Vivianna Hope which means "Full of Life".

The nurses cleaned her off and her birthmother said,
"Her mom should be the first one to hold her."
And I was.

These 6 years with Vivi have been full of laughter, drama, dresses, bows, shoes, dolls, Barbies, beaches, jewelry, Hawaii, school, cheerleading, Disney World, zebra print, birthday parties, bikes, macaroni and cheese, Sea World, zoos, libraries, Toys R Us, doctors & dentists, water parks, moving 3 times, Christmas presents, sidewalk chalk, puzzles, books, and lots and lots of fun.

Happy Birthday, to my Vivi.

Being a mother to this child has been my dream come true.
To commemorate her 6th birthday, here are the lyrics to
 Martina McBride's:

In My Daughter's Eyes
by Martina Mcbride

In my daughter's eyes I am a hero
I am strong and wise and I know no fear
But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I want to be
In my daughter's eyes

In my daughter's eyes
Everyone is equal
Darkness turns to light
And the world is at peace
This miracle God gave to me
Gives me strength when I'm weak
I find reason to believe
In my daughter's eyes

And when she wraps her hand around my finger
Oh it puts a smile in my heart
Everything becomes a little clearer
I realize what life is all about
It's hangin' on when your heart
Is had enough
It's givin' more when you feel like givin' up
I've seen the light
It's in my daughter's eyes

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Potty Training Success!

I told you I'd keep you along for the Potty Train.

Raise your hand if you are tired of reading about it yet?
I'm kinda over it too.

Jasmine has done a Superb job and I am ready to call it finished.
She has not wet her underpants since Monday at home.  We call her Grandma every day to update her on her progress and Daddy is super proud of her, but a little uncomfortable continuing with the "Good job pooping on the potty Jasmine!!" talk from his cubicle when we call him at work. Hee hee.
 :)

We have been playing potty all week and she has had quite the moral support of friends who have come along for the ride:
 Dollhouse Baby on the potty.

Mickey on the potty.

Hello Kitty on the potty.

Barney on the potty.

Tiana on the potty.

And even:
Dream lite on the potty.

And my favorite:
Big sister on the potty!!

I know we will still have accidents when we leave the house. 
My plan for that is pullups OVER underwear.
I did this with Vivi and it worked beautifully.

Tomorrow will be a fun mall day to celebrate Vivianna turning 6 years old...so she will get to try out:

 Jasmine on a public potty.

We will see how that goes!

If all goes well again tomorrow, I will be able to officially say Jasmine has fully potty trained in 3 days, two weeks before turning two years old.

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

My Facebook Status....

Jasmine Faith pooped in the potty today and has had ZERO wet underpants. We always knew she was destined for greatness...

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Potty Training- Day One




This evening, Jasmine ditched the diapers!
She received her potty training launch pack and immediately put on her underwear. We started late in the day because we ended up having to spend our entire afternoon shopping for a new washing machine.
 It is always something around here...
The spin cycle on our old one broke just in time for all the wet underwear I am going to be washing over the next week. Good grief.

The new one is installed and working beautifully.
Jasmine spent a little over 3 hours tonight diaper free. 
She had three pees on the floor and two in the potty. She remained interested in the process, so we will see how tomorrow goes. 

I sure am thankful for all the tile in our house!!

 The progress I hope to see tomorrow includes: the ability to stop and start peeing by her own control, the ability to get to the potty and get her underwear off if need be, and making sure she remains positive about potty training and doesn't get so discouraged she shuts down.

I will keep you all updated as we board the Potty Train!